Our three with Lula on the steps of Guadalupe Church
Lula and Millie
Llolisa teaches Jemima and Gabriel some aerial dance moves
We’ve moved house, to a beautiful sublime, adobe house full of character, set on a steep hill in the town up a cobbled road, with great views in all directions, in the Barrio Cerrillo. We have melted into this house, the relief at being in a place that is clean and aesthetically interestingly, where I don’t have to put my shoes on the minute I wake up, because of the state of the floors. It’s owned by a Mexican artist Margarita, and is very tasteful and natural, a beautiful Mexican design, sympathetic to nature, with its terracotta floors and adobe walls, wooden beams and furniture and vibrant Mexican colours.
Gone is the cockerel wake-up call. Gone is the large garden, but we have gained a lovely attic room with high wooden beams, with a terrace which serves as a playroom for the children. It’s heavenly and we now get to explore a different side of San Cristobal.
The children and Mark continue with their school in the mornings. Millie, with her Montessori.
In the pursuit of trying to make myself useful somewhere to someone, I traipse the streets knocking on doors (7 to be precise) of varying charities who work here, in the hope that they may require volunteers. “We have our full quota” has been the unanimous answer. One charity even asked me to submit a CV! In the end I have settled for helping one person to learn English. Lupita and I get together three times a week and with the help of the Jovel Language School, where Jemima Gabriel and Mark are learning Spanish, they have lent me books and guided me. I am finding it very satisfying. She is keen and eager and a fast learner.
Today I went to see a huesero or a bone man, recommended to me by Georgina. I have got nothing to lose. I present my MRI paper scan report for him to read, and survey the small room. Two Budhas sitting cross legged on the window ledge, the sound of trickling water from a corner fountain. A picture of a crucifixion scene on the other wall. there seems to be some confusion here. Two chairs, old school style, facing each other, next to a few lit candles on the side. “It will take three sessions to fix you ” he says handing me back my Scan report (he clearly doesn’t know what it is). A session being a twenty-minute manipulation of my shoulder and arm, including having hot glasses warmed over a candle suctioned on my skin ( quite effective really); he also manhandles me into positions I haven’t been in 10 months! With a few yelps from me, I leave twenty minutes later. It cost me 100 pesos. Not sure whether I am grateful to him or not. No questions asked, see you again on Friday! There’s a queue of Indigenous people sitting on the benches outside. We shall see?
We are loving being here, enjoying the daily patterns of our lives, living in this beautiful interesting town. We are developing routines and getting to know a few of the locals, the woman selling corn on the streets, for after school snacks, orange juice from the cart on the corner of the square by Millie’s school, Patricia makes us our favourite Mexican food, on demand, a little less spicy for the kids today if you please. Mole or Cochinito Pibil for Lunch tomorrow?
Many of the parents of kids at Millie’s school are incredibly open and friendly, though Mark and I seem a lot older and much much more conservative than any of them. For starters we have no tattoos, or multiple body piercings, and no dreads. Many of the foreigners living here are anti-American, anti-Conglomerates, anti-American trade policies, almost anti-everything for that matter. They came here to sympathise with the Zappatistas Movement and stayed…. they are an interesting bunch! The majority of people we have met here are convinced that it was the Americans (CIA) who were responsible for 9/11. Mark and I are not so sure, though little seeds of doubt are creeping in.
Millie and I set off at 9 am for our walk through the town, Millie chatting, a long monologue the whole way. We choose the left side of the street on the way there, so the sun can warm the backs of our necks. It takes us half an hour, past the market, down the steps. The Local villagers are coming into town, with their burden of shawls draped across their shoulders, colourfully dressed in their village colours, babies strapped to their backs and fronts too in some cases. The orange juices are being squeezed, mango and pineapples are being cut on street stall barrows. We pop into the bakers to pick up some hot bread to eat along the way, then we arrive at her little school at the Arco de Carmen. The door is opened and kisses all round. I feel like I have been here forever.
Then after dropping her at her Montessori class, I climb the stairs to an open airy breezy room around the corner, with open verandah over looking the square in front of Sta Lucia Church for a “Latin Dance Exercise Class”. It’s a continuous hour long dance class, in which we pace through the rhythms, from salsa, meringue, and Zumba. Llorina is the happiest looking teacher – she sets the pace and we follow her, the music blasting slightly too loud through the open doors to the church square opposite. The shine boys lean against the railings to get a glimpse of us as we shimmy across the floor. It’s a feel good hour, though I do feel slightly lop sided with my one arm.
The children have discovered the magic of an aerial dance class. This entails being dangled from swathes of brightly coloured lycra material from which they acrobatically climb and do gymnastics. Gabriel approaches it with more athleticism, while Jemima uses it to practice her ballet. Millie is just too young. They take classes together in a little room with incredibly high wooden beam ceilings and Lolisa guides them through the moves. Millie and I look on, wishing it was us flying through the air and I wish I was twenty years younger.
Amongst all this excitement, Mark tries to get them to do some daily maths, which they dread. Neither of them have that natural propensity. I am inclined towards the belief that they will catch up once back home; Mark thinks they will be disillusioned at being so far behind their peers when we are back. Mark wins the argument. As maths was never my forte, I am leaving him to cope with that task.
Anshu and Ramadatta, our neighbours in House No 1, are becoming firm friends and become the children’s surrogate grandparents. Tomorrow they are taking the children off for the day. Heavenly Bliss. A Day to ourselves.
Millie’s school come to spend a morning in our garden
Our favourite place, roast onions, chillies, chicken, frijoles and tortillas
A day trip to the Sumidero Canyon. Things have changed here, we all have to wear life jackets.
An evening stroll from our house with Anshu and Ramadatta down the steep hill
A bow to the vast gorilla on the way out . He sits on the wall opposite
I am truly enjoying your journey. Thank you for making me feel like I am there with you. Such an incredible adventure and it is almost impossible to believe you will return to St-Margarets…. How do you come back to something so ordinary after so much extraordinary??
Hello, I’ve just found your blog – it’s BRILLIANT. We’re about to do something very similar (packingitallin.wordpress.com) – including six months in St Cristobal.
We’ve lived there before but not with small children – I’d really appreciate your thoughts on houses, schools and that amazing looking dance class if you’ve ever got time!
Hi Rosie, thank you for your message via our blog. Please a can I have your email address, so that I can answer any of your questions, mine is fe.Dalrymple@gmail.com
milly como siempre hermosa!!!!!
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Wonderful posts. Love from Andrew and Claire….
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I am truly enjoying your journey. Thank you for making me feel like I am there with you. Such an incredible adventure and it is almost impossible to believe you will return to St-Margarets…. How do you come back to something so ordinary after so much extraordinary??
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Hello, I’ve just found your blog – it’s BRILLIANT. We’re about to do something very similar (packingitallin.wordpress.com) – including six months in St Cristobal.
We’ve lived there before but not with small children – I’d really appreciate your thoughts on houses, schools and that amazing looking dance class if you’ve ever got time!
All the best,
Rosie Murray-West
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Hi Rosie, thank you for your message via our blog. Please a can I have your email address, so that I can answer any of your questions, mine is fe.Dalrymple@gmail.com
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